Friday 4 May 2007

good bad right wrong

hmmm....choices
we all haf choices in life and the choices we make r wat shapes us. either we reap the rewards tt come wif wat we chose or we live wif its consequences. however, sometimes we r forced to make choices tt we r unsure of. or ones tt will make us unhappy. n we'll tend to regret it later, thinkin to ourselves tt we cld haf given ourselves more time to make a better judged decision.

but is there ever such a thing as too late? decisions cld have been made but isnt it really up to our own selves to overturn such decisions. even if things have been done, we cld always make the effort to make things better or make things right. wat do we base our choices on in the first plc?

Life is all abt learning. we neva stop learning. wrong choices teach us to make better informed ones in the future. ppl learn from mistakes and mature by adapting their decision making process. right choice, wrong choice. good choice, bad choice. actuali these r subjective aren't they? at e end of it all, u alone measure ur own choices n rate them according to ur own standards. then there's the natural choice n forced choice. wat eva it is, it all boils down to fate n destiny. the type of choices available to one's self is predetermined n y these choices appear is still a mystery to many. we make decisions evry single day of our lives but do we eva stop to think abt evry thing tt we decide. is eating nasi lemak versus mee rebus the ryt choice or was it a bad choice.

wat i'm trying to say is tt sometimes, we shldnt judge a person by the choices he/she makes. to us it may be wrong but to him/her it may be right. one man's meat is another man's poison. how do we ourselves decide whether the choice we make is correct? in my opinion, there's no ryt nor wrong. decide, action, adapt. the important thing is not to regret one's own choice. for me, it has been simple enuf, choose the road tt makes me happy, even if down the road it may turn sour, i'll wait for another fork in the road and pick it up fm there. make the best of evry situation n find the lining behind evry dark cloud. there's juz not enuf time to waste it on being stressed out. however, i've been guilty of tt too...haha

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